All boys are jerks… and God happens to redeem a few.
- The problem with many single Christian ladies is the temptation to settle. In a recent survey I saw where 60% of the Christians in America are female…so…many of them feel like that have to take what they can get.
- Many single ladies are more in love with the idea of being in a relationship and being married MORE than they are in love with Jesus, and so, they will settle for unGodly relationship … and over the next few years many of them will become divorced and will have experienced some serious pain in their lives…all because they didn’t have high Godly standards.
- The Bible says in Ephesians 3:20 that God is able to so much more than we could ever ask or imagine…so single ladies should set incredibly high Godly standards…and then watch God blow them out of the water.
- The following question should be asked before entering ANY serious relationship! “Is this the kind of love God meant when He created Adam and Eve, the kind between two people that truly reflects His love for us (the 1 Corinthians 13 kind), or are you settling for less than God’s immeasurably? more than anything you can ask or imagine?
What should a man be? What am I looking for in a man who will win the heart of my daughter?
- A Priest – he needs to be in love with Jesus and know God’s Word. I tell single guys all the time that the best thing they can do to prepare themselves for marriage is to read the Bible over and over again…to memorize it…AND to apply it!!! If a guy doesn’t know Scripture–he cannot spiritually lead any daughter of Christ, and he should be shown the door.
- A Protector – if a guy ever puts a lady into a situation where she feels compromised physically or spiritually…then he is NOT a godly man, he is actually acting more like satan – seeking to manipulate her to fulfill his own selfish desires. A true man of God protects a woman and her reputation.
- A Provider – Don’t bring home some broke boy that I am going to have to support and who wants to live in my basement! I want my little girl to date and marry a man who has dreams AND A JOB!!! Single guys–WORK!!! Jesus spoke a lot about being a good steward over what he provides. You don’t have to be rich to show you are a good provider, you have to show you honor God and you future spouse by being a good manager of what he does provide.
Fall in love with Jesus–treat women like women should be treated in the eyes of God–and WORK to provide for her!!!
